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What I Wish More Business Owners Knew About Social Media

Not going viral, not growing, not selling? Social media manager Jennifer Obodoeze on the four things she wishes every business owner understood before giving up.

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Your social media posts aren’t bringing in sales, your followers aren’t growing, and you’re starting to wonder if social media is even worth the effort.

Before you give up, there are a few things you need to understand.

Today, people use social media to discover businesses, compare products, ask questions, and decide what to buy. According to Sprout Social’s 2025 research, 76% of surveyed consumers said social media content had influenced a purchase in the previous six months.

If your business isn’t building a presence online, you could be missing valuable opportunities. However, showing up is only the beginning. How you use social media matters, too.

As a social media manager, here are a few things I wish more business owners understood.

1. Social media is a long game, not a 30-day miracle

Let’s be honest. We’ve all seen a business post a video that gets thousands of views overnight. Suddenly, everyone wants to know the secret behind its success.

You hire a social media manager, start posting consistently, and expect similar results. Thirty days later, your followers have barely increased, sales haven’t changed, and you’re already questioning the strategy.

Here’s what I want you to understand: your business doesn’t have to go viral to grow on social media.

Going viral can introduce your brand to a large audience, but it doesn’t guarantee sales. People need to discover your brand, understand what you offer, trust you, and feel confident enough to buy from you. That process takes time.

Your first month might involve testing content formats, understanding your audience, improving your messaging, and identifying what people respond to.

This doesn’t mean you should wait months before expecting progress. Your strategy should have clear goals, and you should review performance regularly to understand what’s working and what needs to change.

However, expecting viral posts and consistent sales within your first 30 days can set you up for disappointment.

Instead of asking, “Why haven’t we blown up yet?” ask, “What have we learned about our audience this month, and how can we use that information to improve our results?”

That question will take you much further.

Your business doesn’t have to go viral to grow on social media.

2. Your follower count isn’t your business goal

Picture this: your competitor has 20,000 followers, while your business has 2,000. Yet you’re receiving enquiries, booking appointments, and making sales through your content.

Who is doing better?

It depends on the results each business is achieving.

Having thousands of followers looks good, and there’s nothing wrong with wanting to grow your audience. The problem starts when follower count becomes your only measure of success.

You could have 10,000 followers and still struggle to sell because your content attracts people who enjoy your posts but have little interest in buying from you.

Meanwhile, a smaller but more relevant audience could be saving your posts, asking questions, sharing your content, and eventually becoming paying customers.

This is why your social media goals should connect to your business goals.

  • If you want more people to discover your brand, track reach and profile visits.
  • If you want to build trust, pay attention to meaningful comments, shares, saves, and conversations.
  • If you want more customers, monitor enquiries, appointment bookings, website visits, and sales you can reasonably connect to your social media activity.

Each metric tells a different story. A post with thousands of views might be great for awareness, while another with fewer views could generate several serious enquiries.

The goal isn’t just to collect followers. It’s to build an audience that has a reason to care about your business.

3. Your social media manager needs your input

You’ve hired a social media manager to create content, manage your pages, and help your business grow. But there’s something you need to understand: they can’t tell your story if you never share it with them.

Your manager might know how to plan content, write captions, design graphics, and analyse performance. However, they don’t automatically know the questions your customers ask, the challenges you face, or the little things that make your business unique.

Imagine you own a skincare business. Your manager could create an educational post about skincare routines. That’s useful. However, if you share the common mistakes your customers make when choosing products, that insight could inspire content that speaks directly to their concerns.

Your input makes the difference.

Share real photos, behind-the-scenes videos, customer questions, and product updates. Give honest feedback, and approve content on time.

Your manager also has a responsibility to ask questions and make the process easier for you. It’s a partnership. You bring your knowledge of the business, and your manager brings the strategy and skills to communicate that knowledge effectively.

The best content comes from collaboration, not from expecting one person to do everything alone.

4. Consistency matters more than perfection

How many times have you delayed posting because your graphics weren’t perfect, you didn’t like how you looked in a video, or you were waiting for the right content idea?

Maybe you spent a week trying to create one perfect post, only to publish it and receive five likes.

Frustrating, right?

Now imagine repeating that process for months. Your page becomes inactive, people have fewer opportunities to discover your business, and you miss valuable chances to learn what your audience likes.

Here’s the thing: one perfect post cannot do the work of a consistent, thoughtful content strategy.

Your audience needs opportunities to discover you, understand your offers, learn from you, and become familiar with your brand.

This doesn’t mean you should post carelessly just to fill your calendar. Your content should have a purpose and give people a reason to pay attention. However, perfection shouldn’t become an excuse for inconsistency.

You also need to understand that not every post will perform well. When a post gets fewer views than expected, don’t immediately abandon your strategy or copy what another brand is doing. Review the hook, topic, format, and other relevant factors. Look for ways to improve your next post.

Consistency gives you more opportunities to learn, test ideas, and improve your content.

My final thoughts…

Social media can create valuable opportunities for your business, but you need to approach it with the right expectations.

Don’t judge your entire strategy by one post. Don’t measure success by follower count alone. Work with your social media manager, stay consistent, and give your strategy room to develop.

Most importantly, stop posting just to keep your page active. Every piece of content should have a purpose, whether it’s helping people discover your brand, building trust, starting conversations, or encouraging potential customers to take action.

Your business deserves more than just an active social media page. It deserves a strategy that works towards real business goals.

So, take a moment to look at your social media. Are you building a presence with a clear purpose, or are you simply posting and hoping for the best?

Your next sip:

Write down the one business goal your social media should support this month. Then pick the single number that shows it, and check that number instead of your follower count.

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